Tuesday, July 10, 2007
it's like this colleague of mine is in charge of doing this certain stuff n when he ask for my help he made it sound like im obliged to do so instead of being thankful. n he was always saying stuff like thanks ar eleen ure v helpful in a sacarstic manner. i mean i have my stuff to do n I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS STUFF URE DOING Y DO U KEEP MAKING IT SOUND LIKE IM AT FAULT WHEN U CAME OUT WITH A LOUSY JOB OR THT I M SUPPOSED TO DO THIS! it's like this is very familiar.. i remembered it happened to me quite a few times. ya as in it's quite uncomfortable becos this time im firmer n i rejected helping him but he'll be like errmm.. make it sound like my fault. n things cannot go wrong now cos im having my final evaluation soon (haa!) n i do admit tht sometimes i ask him for help but not to such an extent. n sometimes he also give unconstructive help n yet i was still thankful instead of passing sacarstic remarks.
i hate sacarstic pple. seriously. ive no idea how being sacarstic cna make one's life better. i believe u can just be frank n say everything out so both parties r aware instead of being sacarstic and hurting the other person.
wadever back to doing my social report. hais, advisor.. tell me wad to do...